Thursday, February 7
femininity
"femininity is more than a pretty face and attractive clothes.
it is an attitude, an inner radiance, a certain serenity, an appeal to sight, sound, touch, smell, the creating of an aura of loveliness"
-Sarah J. Hale-
There is something about being a girl that's very different. When one is in her teen years, she is being molded, sculpted into the lady she becomes. I use the term 'lady' for it brings to mind someone who is respected and respectful, gentle, polite and alluring. The term 'woman' is used most degradingly in today's society as a "woman" is treated as an object and rarely a person.
To be a lady, you can never be sloppy in your appearance. No suggestive attire. Be more feminine, less female. For any animal can be female but a person can be feminine. We do not need to display our bodies in order to be seen as one of the opposite sex but to wear clothes that compliment one's self but not lower her standard. Modest yet appealing.
Never let yourself appear wild or uncivilised in public. There is always a certain protocol in acting before a person. Never come across as 'cheap'. You need not be rich to have 'class' for the way you present yourself to others is what leaves an impression about who you are and your background.
After all that, surely you must suppose that I mean to make you into a stiff, proper person. Proper, yes, but stiff, Heaven forbid. You can be charming and well accepted without being ridiculous or as a simpleton. Carry yourself because others are watching and although you might think that "proper" ladies are not "girlfriend" quality, they are in fact "marriage" quality. For from my research, boys play with girls but men marry ladies.
Besides, once you do tie the knot, I'm sure you don't want unwanted skeletons in your closet. A lady is a mother, a sister, a friend, a daughter. She has responsibilities to take care of and loved ones to tend to. No man can be a woman, so treasure your femininity for depending on how you use it, it can bring you to success or downfall.
To be a lady, you can never be sloppy in your appearance. No suggestive attire. Be more feminine, less female. For any animal can be female but a person can be feminine. We do not need to display our bodies in order to be seen as one of the opposite sex but to wear clothes that compliment one's self but not lower her standard. Modest yet appealing.
Never let yourself appear wild or uncivilised in public. There is always a certain protocol in acting before a person. Never come across as 'cheap'. You need not be rich to have 'class' for the way you present yourself to others is what leaves an impression about who you are and your background.
After all that, surely you must suppose that I mean to make you into a stiff, proper person. Proper, yes, but stiff, Heaven forbid. You can be charming and well accepted without being ridiculous or as a simpleton. Carry yourself because others are watching and although you might think that "proper" ladies are not "girlfriend" quality, they are in fact "marriage" quality. For from my research, boys play with girls but men marry ladies.
Besides, once you do tie the knot, I'm sure you don't want unwanted skeletons in your closet. A lady is a mother, a sister, a friend, a daughter. She has responsibilities to take care of and loved ones to tend to. No man can be a woman, so treasure your femininity for depending on how you use it, it can bring you to success or downfall.
our love lingers at 12:04:00 AM
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